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March 25, 2008

My Candidate ~ My Classroom

Do you have a quotation that serves your life, your entire life, like a sextant as you cross the sea?  And can you narrow it to one?  Oddly, I do.  Or not so oddly, if you know me well.  “We are all beings in a school for gods in which we learn in slow motion the consequences of thought,”  from Joy's Way by Dr. Brugh Joy.  Not only is this the North star on my world map but it reminds me that life is a classroom. 

The current presidential election has thrown me into a graduate course that is unexpected, extremely personal, truly difficult and really fascinates me.  What are the central lessons?  How can they be viewed, managed, and discussed while not taking a cheap shot, drawing a shallow conclusion or discarding them as too divisive?  My email inbox is filled with letters and articles that do just that and I want something more.

I know myself fairly well and fundamentally I am interested in American social justice; being a woman, feminism is the natural fit.  I am a student of Liberation Theology, so American social justice based on race has always been an obvious parallel.  All of which is true for the poor, immigrants seeking safety, mentally challenged, the imprisoned… all too many categories.  In fact, for me, that is the current US political lesson.  How can the marginalized stop competing, as if contestants in a pity pageant replete with winners and losers.  What is the trump card? Is my trump invalid for you?  Is your trump invalid for me? 

Two hundred kids eating gruel at the orphanage table, “I am hungrier.”  “I have been here longer.”  “I am older.”  “I am frail.”  “I am sick.”  They squabble amongst themselves.  Fights breakout in the dining hall and the end result is the headmaster,to end the chaos and punish, sends them all to bed.  Do I lobby for the girls?  Do I look for the ones most hungry?  Do I step in and try to line them up by some imaginary criteria based on a presumed understanding of how they got there?  This one was brought by car, this one by ship, this one crawled through extreme danger, this one escaped gunfire, this one had sex with one of the teachers, this one is blind, this one is insane.  None of those are decent ideas.  None of them.  The entire point of social justice was to get rid of the intoxicating power of the headmaster.  Mind you I did not say get rid of the headmaster, just the imbalance of power.  To be a true liberator you can't oppress one group to free another; nor oppress the headmaster. 

Until this election unfolded, I have been so hopeful about a woman commanding the Whitehouse, a democrat and am particularly glad it is Senator Hillary Clinton.  It was in keeping with my values concerning presidential electoral politics.  (I would prefer a pacifist but that is not an option in this venue)  Of course any liberal who reads the news knows the terrible contest raging between gender and race.  Someone is trying to line up those orphans.

So here is what I have come to learn.  Barack Obama cannot speak for every Black man.  Hillary Clinton cannot speak for every woman.  But, moreover, neither of them is speaking to end privilege, to liberate the poor, to liberate the human race, to liberate men and women.  Senator Obama may have given the great Black speech of the Century, but I require more ~ I want a great Liberator Speech.

I need someone to talk about the Supreme Court and the moral fabric of our country.  I need someone to talk about the colors of all people, all economic circumstances, all orientations, all religions, all of the oppressed.  Come out of your gender corner, come out of your race corner and speak to all marginalized Americans.   A few weeks ago I wrote that, in regards to Obama and Clinton, I wanted them both; now I am wondering if both of them is enough.  Today's lesson is that my dream candidate is someone who wants to get rid of the intoxicating power of the headmaster, not just defend and advance their personal marginalized group. 

March 19, 2008

Conflict and War

Guest Blogger, my loved, Buddhist friend, Diane Lee ~

Today is the fifth anniversary the US invasion of Iraq. While some would say this war is just, others deem it unjustified and based on lies. Meanwhile, on the other side of the world, a society that was brutally invaded and held under the grip of a huge super power struggles to for the survival of their culture. A culture with a rich spiritual tradition, steeped in the steadfast belief in non-violence and compassion. For almost sixty years the world powers have not interceded in this situation. The US continues to borrow money from this brutal opportunistic invader, China. The world will watch as the Olympic Games are hosted by China. And yet, this super power continues to blame a simple monk who hasn’t been home in almost fifty years, for Tibetan resistance. The people of Tibet have rights to preserve their traditions, culture and language that China continues to deny. If the violence continues the Dalai Lama has stated he will give up his seat as the political head of Tibet. This doesn’t sound like a man inspiring violent protests to me. It could be that viewed that the next generation of Tibetans seems to be losing their patience with non-violent ways. Or it could be true that China is staging the violence to justify their continued dominance over this precious jewel.

The world is still watching and doing nothing to help Tibet, while we continue to pour money into a Middle Eastern country that has a commodity that everyone wants (oil). I am struck by contrast of these two conflicts, and the world’s response to them. I still strive to make aspirations for the end to suffering for all beings, even the ones who I disagree with, including the ones who would harm me. Today, I am reminded of a story about His Holiness the Dalai Lama. At the end of a talk he gave, someone asked him, “Why didn’t you fight back against the Chinese”? The Dalai Lama looked down, swung his feet just a bit, and then looked back up with a gentle smile and responded, “Well, war is obsolete you know.” After a few moments, he face turned grave, as he said “Of course, the mind can rationalize fighting back…but the heart, the heart would never understand. Then you would be divided in yourself, the heart and the mind, and the war would be inside of you.”

March 12, 2008

A Conversation about Ferraro

Feministing A response to Courtney of Feministing.com writing about Geraldine Ferraro.

Younger women want to speak, breathe, and live intersectional feminism--the idea that social change emerges at the crossroads of race, class, gender, sexuality, ability etc. Some older women are stuck in a second-wave conception of feminism as wholly focused on gender and championing women no matter what the context or complexities. We see this divide showing up in women's organizations. We see this divide showing up in media coverage. And we see this divide showing up in the interpersonal, every day struggles between feminists of different generations who want to see one another and do good work together.

First, let me say thank you for saying, "Some older women are stuck in a second-wave..." You are the only one to qualify this disturbing fact with the qualifier of the word, "some." I am in the most peculiar of circumstances of being 59 and having one foot in each of the self-imposed label of waves.  My grey hair is in the 2nd wave, my clothes are, rightly so, in the 2nd wave but my conscience is in the 3rd wave.

My hope has been to be a liaison, explaining one to the other and this election has really ripped through my soul. There is a piece coming out in the Nation, Morning in America, (trying to not hammer the reporter for talking about muffins and good china - I can't translate that to men meeting in the AM), I  highlighted one sentence late last night, "...media descriptions of white women as the sole inheritors of the feminist movement and black men as the sole beneficiaries of the civil rights movement."  I had to pause and really survey the context of my political activism.

I don't want to choose one movement over another - the goal has always been to eliminate oppression in all forms.  Is this Sophie's choice? - I hate that.  A mother who has twins, carried for 9 months, and gave birth to her children ~ choosing one or the other is one of the few things that can destroy a soul.  I think it explains why this election is eating away at my, and so many others', very fabric. 

And then there is the anger that, what began as so much good news, has turned into dropping one of my political alliances and banners in my lifelong march for liberation.  And in some cases being told that I am no longer welcome with one group where I had been celebrated.  I still want what I want – but how that wanting became harming another, whom I am drawn to protect, is unexpected, unimaginable, and, at the moment, unsolvable. 

March 09, 2008

My Evening with Candi

I just cannot resist telling  you about my evening at UCLA.   The freeway was shut due to a mudslide and the Bruins were winning a basketball game home court - enough said about my commute.  I was invited to speak at the annual Daisy Day celebration for Women's History Month.  I was scheduled between Japanese Drumming and a women's chorus.  This was not my finest hour.  As Nellie Mckay says, "feminists have a tumor on their funny bone" and I was not able to translate my fire and brimstone delivery about women's lib in that particular moment.  I knew I was out of sync ~ to put it mildly. 

But following all of that was Candis Cayne of ABC's Dirty Sexy Money.  She was spectacular.  In the course of her humor, glamor and ease, she spoke about what baggage came along with beginning to live in a female body as an adult. The story she shared was the thrill of her first cat-calling whistle some strange guy sent her way.  She was happy and it seemed to be fun.   He continued, "hey baby, look over here."  She continued on her path without turning around.  He escalated into aggression and anger - "How about I put my *&^%%$ in your $%^&#!!"  Suddenly, and I mean suddenly, Candi found out what those of us lucky enough to be born with both a female soul and female body knew very early on ~ all that kind of attention ain't any fun. 

Cz_3 When I spoke with her after, I held her hand, wanting to say how sorry I am that she ever had to know (as I would tell her 6 year old niece who just got the news) but all I could say was how proud I am of her and that the transition must have been a lot more difficult than she had let on during her happy and bright presentation. 

Candis will be speaking at the CA NOW State Conference.  I hope you can make it.  And Helen Reddy!  It is going to be a great day - Saturday, April 19 - more on that later. 

March 02, 2008

Speaking for Women's History Month

BigabigailadamsMarch 6
Daisy Day, an annual UCLA campus-wide tradition that commemorates International Women's Day to raise awareness.
6:30-8:30pm.
De Neve Plaza

March 15
Newport-Mesa-Irvine chapter of the American Association of University Women
Saturday, March 15. 
Lunch meeting, 11:30 to 1:30
North Bluff Clubhouse in Eastbluff, Newport Beach. 

March 21
San Diego Central NOW
The San Diego LGBT Center library
6-9pm. 

April 7
California State University, Bakersfield.
Monday April 7, 7 p.m.
The Multipurpose Room
The Women’s Network
Women & Gender Studies
Liora Gubkin, Chair
654-2314.
Open